Drop-in-Centre gives wonderful gift - friendship

BY NADINE ARMSTRONG

The Hants Journal

NovaNewsNow.com

When it comes to charitable organizations serving those in need during the holidays, Harvest House is right on the money.

The Water Street drop-in centre is just that; a venue that provides daily refuge to those most in need not only during the holidays, but year-round. It’s the one place that offers solace and friendship to anyone who visits, from seniors, to parolees, addicts and persons with disabilities.

Directors Blaine and Donna Eldridge say they've seen just about anyone come through the door.

“We cater to people who are down and out,” Blaine said. Although he says there isn't anyone they know of sleeping on the streets this time of year, it doesn't mean Windsor is without its homeless.

“We call them couch surfers,” Blaine said. “It's a different kind of street people. There are those that would sleep outside, but if they did now they'd be dead. Mostly this time of year they just look for any place to lie their head a night, but that doesn't mean they're any less homeless.”

At one time Harvest House provided shelter to those without a home, however, finding a volunteer base to work around the clock was difficult. There are no longer beds at the centre, but this couple has taken to using their spare bedroom in emergency situations.

“We get a lot of phone calls from the hospital late at night asking if we can put someone up,” Blaine said.

Harvest House operates every weekday afternoon from 1-4 p.m. and every Friday evening from 7-10 p.m. And business - if you can call it that - is booming.

Lot of lonely people

Many stop in for a cup of coffee or the free lunch provided every Tuesday, but for most it’s about companionship. “There are a lot of lonely people out there who just want someone to talk to,” Donna said.

“That’s what it's all about. Maybe they come for a loaf of bread or a meal, but a lot of times they come just to have a conversation,” Blaine said.

The interdenominational centre was born of the larger Harvest House in Moncton, which provides long-stay services and also works with other organizations such as local food banks to help persons who are in need of food or clothing items.

Blaine and Donna have helped to provide emergency furnace oil and they accept donations for anything from bedding and clothes to general household items. Although they admit some of the donations are cast-offs that aren't suitable for anyone, others are greatly appreciated.

“Ron Russell was really generous this summer,” Blaine said of former MLA. He donated an air conditioner and other quality items.

They also team up with the Salvation Army and say many of their 'regulars' look forward to volunteering during the Christmas 'kettle drive'. “It's a way to get them out there in the community,” Blaine said.

Money’s tight

However, costs to keep Harvest House running is always a slippery slope. Rent at that location is $700 per month and fundraisers and grants just don't cover all the expenses.

“We have an overdraft at the bank and I tell you, we’re always into it,” Blaine said.

An ice cream parlour is a seasonal addition that employs one person for the summer and helps to bring in much-needed revenue.

What it boils down to is a couple who give of themselves everyday. “We don't get a salary,” Blaine said. “That’s just the way it is with this type of ministry. You've got to have a heart for it.”

Both work part-time jobs outside of the centre, but manage to give 100 per cent to Harvest House. “There are days when I think, 'why am I feeling so numb',” Donna said. “But then there are more days when your heart is warmed and you just know you're doing the right thing.”

It’s one way she says she can serve her faith and her community. “I have such a passion for helping people.”

Made a real difference

Although neither he nor Donna is a certified counsellor, they say that's not the most important thing for the people they serve. “Our role is to just be here, be a friend,” Blaine said.

Harvest House regular Wayne says it has made a real difference in his life. “I've been coming here for two years and the support this place gives you is unreal,” he said. “I come to get guidance and I get that every single day. It bolsters you a bit everyday. I can't think of two better people to run this place.”

Harvest House was blessed recently with the donation of five computers that Blaine and Donna say are a real godsend.

“There are people who are not just computer illiterate, but can't add one and one together or compose a simple sentence,” Blaine said. One senior comes regularly to have Donna read her mail. “These are simple things, but just as important.”

Because the centre is interdenominational anyone can volunteer, even if they’re not practicing a particular faith. One way to help out is just to be onsite.

They could also use an extra pair of hands to prepare meals for Tuesdays. Donna says they supply the food, but it can't be prepared on location.

“It would be great to have someone willing to cook from his or her home and help deliver it here,” she said.

Harvest House will serve a Christmas potluck on New Year's Day at 1 p.m. Donna says they’re good for food supplies as several churches have added to the pantry, but they would welcome anyone interested in helping to cook or serve the meal.

And, of course, offer friendship. “There are so many out there that are alone during Christmas; they need fellowship just like anyone else,” she said. And friendship is the greatest gift of all, any time of year.

To volunteer on that occasion or any time of the year, contact Harvest House at 798-0662.