A little simple kindness brightens season

In our zeal to make certain that each bow is tied correctly, our tree is perfectly decorated, the food is prepared and each of our loved ones has the present they wanted, we can miss the true meaning of the season—peace on earth good will toward all.

A few days ago I watched as a child reminded me that sometimes it takes just a simple act of kindness to bring this forward in our thoughts.

A little girl was waiting not so patiently for her mom to return. It was the first time she had attended an activity program and several of the other children had already left. Just then, an older child enthusiastically burst into the room to collect some materials for a craft project.

He stopped when her saw the young girl and asked why she was crying. His explanation that she would be fine in a minute as her mother was on her way did not calm her distress.

His original purpose forgotten, he noticed that she was clutching a book on Santa. Softly he spoke to her about her treasure. He also made funny faces, reassured her that he would stay until Mom arrived and even offered to read it to he while she was waiting. Her giggly smile was contagious.

Later, in the grocery store I noticed an older lady making every effort to put a heavy item in her cart. She looked tired and worried. I stopped for a brief moment to assist and chat. As we walked down the isle collecting our goods we exchanged stories and traditions. Her face took on a radiance as she remembered the years gone by and her smile too was delightful.

As I stood in line at the checkout, I watched an individual fussing and fuming about how slowly the line was moving. When he got to the cashier I observed yet another glorious smile. She greeted him, efficiently moved his items through and thanked him for his patience. He responded with a less than heartfelt acknowledgement, but as he walked away there was yet another smile on his face. Perhaps he passed it on to another.

In our community, this time of year will not be joyous for all. It may even be quite distressing. Perhaps they have recently lost a loved one, or the memories from years past haunt them with sadness. These are tough economic times. Perhaps they will not have the resources to fill their wishes.

Rushing through the day brings only fatigue. As demonstrated above, a few moments can bring a little joy. Time is a valuable commodity but when it is shared in the spirit of friendship and understanding it becomes a priceless gift. kristy@ns.sympatico.ca